Sunday, November 11, 2018

Dear Parishioners and friends,

In ancient times if a man died, his widow was in a precarious situation if she had no adult son to care for her. The widow from the first reading was suffering from famine. Her son was a little child, so imagine the horror when she realized that she could scrape together just a little food for her son and herself before they starved to death. No one cared for her except God who sent the prophet Elijah to her.  But first, she had to trust in God and follow the law of hospitality, caring for the stranger. She did and God rewarded her generously.

Now, look at the widow of today’s Gospel. Jesus’ statement that she gave from her want, her poverty, was a praise of her generosity.  It was also a condemnation of society who had left her destitute. She was rich in faith but her surrounding community treated her poorly. We have a challenge here, to have a generous heart and hand as exemplified by God Himself and the faith-filled might of a fragile widow. Also, we need to be aware to the extent that we participate in the concept that some must lose so others can gain; we can easily be uniting with the sins of greed and materialism that so often cause apathy and tolerate cruel injustice. It is the improper means to gain wealth that is wrong and the disregard of how it causes others to suffer that is sinful.
 
Jesus marveled that a widow, who had so little, gave to the Temple. He also blesses the strength of any society that cares for its weakest members. 
 
The upcoming Christmas Flowers Collection can be memorialized to allow those who contribute to remember loved ones.  If you desire, kindly list on or enclose with your Flower Collection Envelope the names of those who you wish to remember. Those loved ones will be gratefully acknowledged in the Christmas bulletin.

Sincerely, 
Father Joe

Sunday, November 4, 2018

The scribe in today’s Gospel asks a very crucial question that involved 613 laws handed down from Moses. There were even additional laws that protected the 613. For example, the law, “Keep Holy the Sabbath,” was protected by detailed laws of what was and wasn’t viewed as work on the Sabbath and went so far as to number the steps a person was allowed to take with a bucket of water on the Sabbath. More than likely the scribe wanted to trip Jesus, but he backed off when Jesus quoted two verses from the Torah. In loving God and neighbor one will naturally follow suit in the righteous way. 

We are asked to follow laws to keep order and respect others. Always apply the law of love. In doing this, life become less complicated while we honor God and respect our neighbor. We will not be far from the reign of God.

In preparing for Election Day, the Blessed Sacrament will be exposed in our church on Monday, November 5th from noon to the evening benediction and novena at 7 p.m. It will be an appropriate way to seek God’s guidance in choosing the right candidates and asking God’s will to be accomplished.

This weekend we have a book sale in the vestibule of the church.  
The Sesquicentennial anniversary book “Rejoicing in the Lord, an Illustrated History of the Diocese of Wilmington” is available at $32. Also, the New St. Joseph Sunday Missals for 2019 is available at $5. 

Lay Ministers Retreat is scheduled for all adult liturgical ministers on Saturday, November 10. Anyone involved in liturgies, in every way, is welcomed. It will take place in our church and begin with a light breakfast at 9:00 a.m. and continue to 11:30 a.m. Sister Anne Amati, OSF, from Aston PA, will lead our group in this retreat that will energize us for our ministries within our liturgies. 

The Gym/Hall Roof is being replaced these coming days. The delay in replacing the 60 year old slate roof, for another year, has to be expedited because the number of leaks is damaging the inside ceiling tiles and causing a hazard. This building is constantly being used and important to our athletic, educational and social programs. To enforce safety while the weather is cooperating, this major project has been approved by the Diocesan Building Committee and our own Parish Building and Maintenance Committee. Please excuse any inconvenience. 

Sincerely, 
Father Joe

Sunday, October 28, 2018

This time of the year has shorter days that will be remedied somewhat next Sunday when we return to Standard Time.  The lengthy darkness is suitable for what we celebrate this week with things that go bump in the night.  Have you noticed that we make light of those things that we are unfamiliar with or in the dark about?  We often talk to ourselves when walking in total darkness in fear of falling, tripping.   We jokingly decorate with funereal themes and ghostly images to amuse ourselves of that which is a reality of life and yet, the most unknown.  These dark places blind us and therefore…frighten us.

Halloween is the eve of all that is holy…All Saints Day.  It is o.k. to be a little scared of the unfamiliar but All Saints Day is really about those holy people who live in complete Light, without even a shadow.  Not only those canonized by the Church but all faithful men, women and children (hopefully many we have known) who went beyond the darkness of death and now shine in the Resurrection of the Lord forever.

The following day, All Souls Day, is a prayerful day that lifts our beloved dead from the certainty of death to the hope of resurrection.  Only Christ can bring anyone of us through that dark passage; so we prayerfully depend on the mercy of God to deliver our beloved dead to His perpetual light.  Our prayers help them beyond the grave.

Our first reading, this Sunday, reminds us that this is the will of the Lord, to lead us back to Himself in mercy, both, the blind and the lame.  The Gospel mirrors all of us who live in the dark.  Like the blind beggar we say:  “I want to see!”  We want to be delivered from our fright of uncertainty:  the obscurity of a meaningful life, the dimness of the reality around us, the gloom of the wickedness that we cannot control, the blackness of death.  As proclaimed in today’s Gospel, with Jesus we have nothing whatever to fear.  He is the Light we are all waiting for.   

Thursday, November 1, 2018    
All Saints Day (Holy Day of Obligation) Masses are 6:30, 8:00 & 9:30 a.m. and 6:30 p.m.

Friday, November 2, 2018    
All Souls Day Masses are 6:30 & 8:00 a.m. and 6:30 p.m. (with the special remembrance of those who passed away this year).

Next weekend will be a book sale in the vestibule of the church.  The Sesquicentennial anniversary book “Rejoicing in the Lord, an Illustrated History of the Diocese of Wilmington” will be available at $32.

Also, the New St. Joseph Sunday Missals for 2019 will be available at $5.  

Sunday, October 21, 2018

Saint James and his brother, Saint John (our patron) had it all wrong. They wanted authority so they could show their power and have people fear them. In the Kingdom of God, authority would come through service, not through power.

Today’s gospel is really an encouragement to continue to serve the Lord through service to others. All achievements in life come through work and sacrifice. Look at the good parents who are worn out with their jobs and yet they coach, direct scouts, help with homework and lead their children to Mass. We see throughout the parish the faithful who have their own lives to lead and yet find time to assist with our Outreach Programs, minister to the homebound and in liturgies. Our parish children offer their assistance as servers and choir members. Our prayers groups and different societies work for many specific projects and uplift our prayers. This is what we celebrate this Laity Sunday…all that everyone gives to make us who we are…The Body of Christ. 

James and John had it wrong at first but as their lives unfolded they indeed sacrificed their lives for the Kingdom of God, in fact, they are among the great gathered around Jesus’ throne. Know that your labors for the sake of the Kingdom are not in vain. There are places in heaven waiting for you and me. 

Lay Ministers, a retreat is scheduled for all adult liturgical ministers on Saturday, November 10th. All Extraordinary Ministers of the Eucharist, at Mass or for the home bound, all Lectors, all Ushers, all Cantors, Choir Members and Musicians, and those who are on our Liturgy Committee and those who serve in any capacity (e.g. Art & Environment) are welcome to participate in this specific time of reflection and prayer. It will take place in our church and begin with a light breakfast at 9:00 a.m. and continue to 11:30 a.m. Sister Anne Amati, OSF, from Aston PA, will lead our group in this retreat that will spiritually energize us for our ministries within our liturgies. Mark your calendar.

Priests’ Retreat - This week, all active Diocesan priests are required to gather for a retreat with Bishop Malooley in Malvern, PA. Some retired priests will be on call for an emergency. The 6:30 and 8:00 a.m. Daily Masses on Tuesday, October 23, Wednesday, October 24 and Thursday, October 25 will be Communion Services in our church, celebrated by our Deacons. The Mass intentions that are scheduled for those days will be satisfied by our parish priests in Malvern. Keep all of us in prayer this week.

Sincerely, 
Father Joe

Sunday, October 14, 2018

In our Gospel, we see a very polite, respectful, and eager young man run to Jesus to learn from Him.  Luke’s Gospel tells us he was a magistrate or kind of Justice of the Peace.  We know that he believed in eternal life and wanted it; an unusual wisdom in someone of his position and age.   
 
Jesus answers by telling the lad to “keep the commandments;” and He specifically listed the six that deal with human relationships, the more difficult ones to observe.  The young ruler responds in the affirmative saying “I kept all of them since youth.”  Jesus then looks at him “with love,” a benevolent concern, and tells him to then sell his possessions to benefit the needy, and follow Him as a disciple. Unwilling to do this, the youth went away "sorrowful.”  What was holding him back?

 Twice Jesus tells us how hard it is for the rich to enter the Kingdom of God. The Christian walk is difficult but more so for the wealthy because they often grow too accustomed to affluence.  Jesus clearly says for effect that it would be easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle. Can this be done?  Of course not! 
 
There is nothing spiritually wrong with wealth itself. The problem is in the security we desire and hoard in a consumer-driven society.  So often we are just too comfortable with what we want or have rather than with what we really need and this tension holds us back from fully committing to the Lord.  To reiterate, the wealth itself is not the problem, but our false sense of security in those attachments that cannot buy us true happiness or everlasting life. 

 
Jesus' disciples were horrified at His words. "Who then can be saved?"  Secretly—we all would love to win the lottery. Christ pushes the point that one cannot save his/herself through money, skills, talents, intellect, or good looks!  Salvation is from God alone, by His grace.  Jesus assures us that we have our part to play and are rewarded for our efforts but God alone can satisfy what we really desire.

Priests’ Retreat -   Next week, all active Diocesan priests are required to gather for a retreat with Bishop Malooley in Malvern, PA.  Some retired priests will be on call for an emergency.  The 6:30 and 8:00 Daily Masses on Tuesday, October 23, Wednesday, October 24 and Thursday, October 25 will be Communion Services in our church, celebrated by our Deacons.  The Mass intentions that are scheduled for those days will be satisfied by our parish priests in Malvern.  Keep all of us in prayer next week.
 

Sunday, Octber 7, 2018

This is Respect Life Sunday, when we once again recall the value of human life. The Gospel points to the sanctity of marriage in reflection of its purpose as intended at the beginning of creation. Husband and wife are to respect each other. This respect is to be carried out to the family and community and world. The true value of each person is to be recognized and respected as we move about our daily encounters. Can we honestly claim a life is only valuable when it is wanted and acceptable? Can we continue tolerating the streets where innocent lives are randomly gunned down? Can we judge the worth of anyone by his/her status and productivity or by what we can gain with them? Can we allow society to dictate who is worth healing from those who are expendable? These are mature questions that deserve serious attention. Let this Sunday reopen our minds and hearts to our true worth…Children of God. Respect Life…it is the only one each one of us has! 

Day of Evangelization at Saint John the Beloved Today, Sunday, October 7, 2018 from 9 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. in the nearby parish neighborhoods. Purpose? Seeking souls to return to Mass. Our Parish Legion of Mary and friends will visit, in groups of pairs, some nearby neighborhood homes (of parishioners) to extend welcome or greetings from our parish and inquire if anyone needs some physical or spiritual assistance from our parish. If they knock at your door, please welcome them for their brief contact and evangelization. Organized by The Legion of Mary, Wilmington Curia

The Book of Intentions that was in our church’s vestibule has been replaced by a Prayer Box. This allows more privacy for our requested prayer intentions. Simply write your prayer intention on the note paper, fold and in insert the note into the box. The prayer requests will be prayed for throughout the week at Sunday and Daily Masses and all forms of prayer in our church.

For those who are interested in preparing for the Sunday readings in advance, there are many online commentaries/studies on Sunday & Daily Scripture Readings. Below are just four of many examples:

Word on Fire Bishop Barron homilies
https://www.wordonfire.org/resources/homily/

Ascension Press
http://www.ascensioncatholic.net/Commentaries-on-the-Sunday…

Wordpress Celebrating the Word of God
https://sundaycommentaries.wordpress.com/

Loyola Press (A Jesuit Ministry) breaks down commentaries according to age groups (Grades 1-3, Grades 4-6, Grades 7-8, Family)
https://www.loyolapress.com/…/liturgical-…/sunday-connection

Sunday, September 30, 2018

Dear parishioners and guests,

Although today’s Gospel is written by Mark, it gives testimony to John. Our patron, Saint John appears to have been quite the hothead. In the Gospel narratives, he frequently comes off as the angry young man, full of passionate loves and equally passionate hates. In today’s Gospel, it is our Saint John getting ticked when outsiders start swanning around like they own the joint and casting out demons in the name of Jesus. Our Lord tells John not to stop the good the outsider is doing. Likewise, it’s John who wants to call down fire from heaven on the Samaritans — and who gets a stern rebuke from Jesus for it (Lk 9:51). Moreover, it’s John and his brother James who ambitiously go to Jesus (along with their Mom) to be assured a great spot in Christ’s Kingdom (Mt 20:20-28).

It’s not surprising, then, that Jesus nicknames John and his brother James the “Sons of Thunder” (Mk 3:17). These are not shrinking violets but guys who live out loud, tell you what they think and want it all. There is a thirst for life in John. We tend to assume that because he was a fisherman in his dad’s business, John was of average intelligence and not well-educated. But in fact his gospel’s text makes it clear that John is both highly intelligent and well-educated. Genius can appear anywhere. 

John knew that to be successful the early Church had to be dedicated to the Lord and not have a divided heart. For John, all of creation is ordered toward the will of God and the glory of Jesus. Thus everyone must investigate whether the goal of his/her discipleship is truly Jesus Christ or serves their own purpose. And if it is the latter…causing one to sin…cut it off. This is a warning for all disciples and rings so true within the Church and today’s global crisis.

At the end of his life, Saint John was disappointed in the early Church because the initial vigor to follow Christ had diminished and culture stole the hearts of many former followers of Christ. Hence, John wrote the Book of Revelation that warns the Church that the time of change and purification was at hand. History repeats itself and a cleansing of the Church is needed once more. Saint John’s passionate love for Christ and His Church would tell us to stay focused on Jesus while any obstacle or perversion must be eliminated. Again, “the winnowing fan of the Lord (Matt 3:12)” must cleans and separate the good from the bad. John would say: “God’s will be done.”


Thursday, October 4th is the feast of Saint Francis of Assisi. The Franciscan Spirit continues in our school and parish to this day. To celebrate his feast, in addition to the two morning Masses that day, there will be a School Mass at 9:30 a.m. Blessing of Animals will be at 2 p.m. and also at 6:00 p.m. near the church. Everyone is invited.

Sunday, September 23, 2018

Dear Parishioners and guests, 

Most of us have experienced people behaving badly, trying to destroy others out of jealousy or for their own self promotion. Today’s readings confront these human maladies. The first reading presents wicked men plotting the destruction of the Just One. They cannot stand the fact that He is so close to God. This is what would happen to Jesus. It was the motivation of those who sought His death. 

The Letter of James in today’s second reading begins with: “Where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every foul practice.” At the work place, a few negative thoughts into the boss’ ear can hamper a fellow employee’s promotion. In schools, bullies destroy other’s reputations, through texting, e-mails, Facebook, gossip so they can look better before peers. Jealousy is evident in politics and even in the Church. Jesus’ closest disciples didn’t get the message in today’s Gospel. The Twelve argued over who was the most important among them. They are concerned about their position in the heavenly kingdom.

“Stop it,” the Lord said to the Twelve. He reminded them, and us, that they must not see themselves as high and mighty but as servants to all, particularly to those who are most vulnerable. In doing so, we serve the Lord.

In case you get an e-mail from me under the title “PASTOR,” please disregard it. It is just another scam out there that is abusing a good thing. Apparently, whoever they are create fictitious addresses and send them through parish address files. The one being sent to some of our parishioners claims that I want to purchase i-tunes. I do not have any account or need for i-tunes. Thank you anyway.

Complying with the safety recommendations given to us by police and security people, we are keeping the bushes and greens around the parish campus low; especially around windows and doors. Often, theses bushes are good hiding places for people who have bad intentions. Eliminating overgrowth can inhibit some of this unwanted action.

Please be advised that extra Handicapped Parking is available in the back of church with close access to the church doors. Please take advantage of these parking spots if they can assist you. 

Today’s second collection is for Share in the Spirit taken in support of the diocesan tuition assistance program. Monies raised through this collection coupled with the diocese’s tuition assistance endowment provides financial assistance to hundreds of deserving families who seek a Catholic education for their children but who cannot afford the full cost of tuition. If you are not prepared to contribute today, you may drop your contribution off at the parish office or place it in next week’s collection basket. For further information, visit the diocesan website at https://www.cdow.org/…/dev…/development-share-in-the-spirit/.

Sunday, September 16, 2018

We just celebrated this week, the feast of the Exaltation of the Cross and then the feast of Our Lady of Sorrows. These feasts commemorate the finding of the true cross, in Jerusalem, by Saint Helena; followed by the sorrowful presence of Mary at the foot of the cross. Both days point to the suffering of redemption. It was on the wood of the cross, a tree commonly used daily in the Roman regions, where criminals were executed publicly. Precisely there, Jesus took upon Himself our sins and suffered brutally for our salvation. Standing with Him was His Mother. She suffered the agony of witnessing her Son’s humiliating, cruel death. Her tears were not only of a mother but that of the first disciple of Jesus.

The prophet Isaiah, in today’s first reading, was ready to embrace whatever humiliation and pain that following God might entail. He is willing to offer his back to those who beat him and his cheeks to those who pluck his beard. This passage is called the “Suffering Servant” of the one who is convinced that God will help him in spite of his troubles.

Every one of us has troubles. Those who are followers of Christ will, indeed, know the cost of following Him. We just celebrated the seventeenth anniversary of September 11th and recall the multitude of good people who were consumed by that terrorism. These past months disclosed even more horrific accounts of children, young people and their loved ones who suffer from abuse by clergy. The increasing loss of too many from the epidemic of addictions and suicide is a chronic social suffering. The lack of necessities to simply live plagues thousand throughout the world and in our neighborhoods and make innocent people suffer. 

The sufferings and answers are complicated and all of us empathize with Saint Peter today when, after Jesus foretold His passion and death, Peter says: “God forbid, Lord that anything should happen to you.” Jesus' rebuke must have stung Peter terribly. "You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do." Peter thought that happiness could come without a price. He was not ready to put up a fight against evil nor suffer for something that was infinitely greater than this life. 

As followers of Christ, we have to be willing to sacrifice the happiness of this world for the sake of the Kingdom of God. "Whoever wishes to save his life will lose it. But whoever will lose his life for my sake and for the sake of the Gospel will save it." 

We celebrate Catechetical Sunday this weekend to honor everyone who follows in the footsteps of Jesus by passing on, in word and example, the lessons from Jesus. Appreciation is extended to our School Principal, Director of Religious Education, RCIA team, all teachers in various programs and all those who volunteer to pass on to the new generation, the deposit of faith.

Flowers at the Holy Family Shrine are in memory of Peter & Frances Piekarski & Family.

Sunday, September 9, 2018 

“He put His fingers into the man’s ears. And He spat and touched his tongue; and looking up to heaven, He signed and said to him, ‘Ephphatha,’ that is, ‘Be opened.’  And the man’s ears were opened, his tongue was released, and he spoke plainly.”  This was a sign of the Messiah.  Isaiah had said, in our first reading today, that the eyes of the blind would be opened, the ears of the deaf be cleared, the lame would leap and the tongue of the mute would sing.  The people realized that Jesus was performing these signs.

Everyone is looking for joy, for good news.  There are plenty of people who tell us what is wrong with everything.  How blessed are the people who see God working in their lives, even in the midst of difficulties.  To be able to see good, to hear positively, to walk into life’s pasture with grace and speak compassionately when negativity surrounds us is truly being touched by the Messiah. 

 

Sunday, September 2, 2018 

Dear Parishioners and friends, 

The ancient Hebrews were given laws to stay away from certain foods, not evil in themselves, to show obedience to God.  In today’s Gospel, Jesus says “Nothing that enters one from outside can defile that person; but the things that come out from within are while defile.”  So we have to be aware of what initiates in our thoughts and heart:  lustful and promiscuous desires, coveting what other’s have, breaking vows, taking what does not belong to me, eliminating other people, swearing against God, hating, being deceptive.  All these defile.

The Catholic belief is that we humans are basically good. Made in the image and likeness of  God.  Sin tempts us to do evil but as we hear in Genesis 4, before Cain kills his brother Abel, God said to him: “Sin is lurking at the door; its desire is for you, but you must master it.”  We can best do this by keeping our hearts innocent.  We have to be on guard not to let our thoughts and heart get contaminated.

We all have examples to discuss of episodes in life where we allow “a little wrong” in.  I take from work because “I’m not paid enough.”  I cheat on my vows and relationship because “My spouse doesn’t understand me.”  We live as though we are married because “everyone now is doing it.”  It is o.k. for me to take advantage of subordinates “because I am more powerful.”  And before we know what hits us, our thoughts have been turned to evil.  We question what is right or wrong.

I believe the fight against evil begins with the development of reason and goes on to our final breath.  The potential is there and denying our vulnerability is just as hypocritical as anyone who is a model of morality and yet leading an immoral life.  If there is something we dislike within ourselves, we need God’s grace first and then the conviction that I need to change.  We need support to remain pure for the Lord.  To do this we need the grace of the sacraments, particularly penance. We need the strength of the Eucharist.  And we need the company of our Catholic Community.  We need positive and accountable friends to keep us moral. 

We need to be concerned with fighting against any evil that might be lurking inside us.  We can easily proclaim this or that wrong in others, but if we are to avoid being hypocrites ourselves, we need to control our thoughts.  We need to protect ourselves against that which will turn black and white into the many shades of gray.  Christ wants us wholesome … and it starts deep inside. 

Labor Day is Monday, September 3.  The one Mass, that day, will be at 9 a.m. celebrating the contributions of workers that make up the strength, prosperity, and well-being of our country.  Human labor is honorable. 

As Christians, we thank God for those who have employment and ask the Lord to assist those seeking employment.  Happy Labor Day!

The Parish Office is closed on Labor Day and there is no novena or benediction that Monday evening.

School starts this week on Tuesday… Good luck and God Bless everyone!
 

Sunday, August 26, 2018 

The story goes that a group of Christians gathered for a secret prayer meeting, at the height of the persecution of all churches in Stalin’s Soviet Union.  Suddenly the door was broken by a soldier who faced the people with a gun. They all feared the worst. He spoke. "If there’s anyone who doesn’t really believe in Jesus, then, get out now while you have a chance." There was a rush to the door.  A small group remained. The soldier closed the door, and with gun poised whispered:  "Actually, I believe in Jesus, too, and you’re much better off without those others!" 

It seems sensible, if you want to live, to run for your life.  Let’s face it; our existence renders our reality while our spiritual dimension relies on faith.  Complete trust and confidence is becoming less of our reality.  Politics, economics, and philosophy are periodically relevant.  Institutions, structures and establishments are never permanent.  Even intimate relationships have disappointed many… family break-up, professional negligence and the recent disturbing exposure of child sex abuse and Church cover-up really shake our core faith in everything and everybody.     

It is quite normal for us to go through periods of doubting.   The Israelites murmured against God and Moses when in the wilderness.  The disciples murmured when Jesus said He was the Bread of Life.  St. Paul in Galatians 5:11 spoke to the early Church who took offense with the “scandal” of the cross.  We too have legitimate reasons to walk away from Church, religion and faith.  In our doubts, confusion, anger and feelings of betrayal, we are tempted to trust only on our senses.  We are tempted to limit ourselves to the here and now.  We are human.  But we are also spiritual.  And deep within us, deep within every single one of us there is the Voice of Faith prodding us to exclaim with Peter, “I will not leave you Lord.  You alone have the words of eternal life.”

So when today’s readings challenge us to make a choice for God and His teachings or against God…what do we do?  We cannot allow our senses to compromise our faith.  Normal as it is for us to want to stand on the material world of our senses and ignore the new world of the spiritual; we know that this too will pass.  And so we believe in that which we do not see.  We believe in that which our human senses cannot reveal.  We believe in the Lord Jesus, who alone is the one whom we can trust and who restores us precisely in the here and now…in His Church.  It is a relationship that has constantly to be re-appraised in a constantly changing world. We must hear Peter’s words to Jesus resounding through the centuries: “To whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.”

 

Sunday, August 19, 2018 

Jesus said: “I myself am the living bread come down from heaven. If anyone eats this bread he shall live forever.” Most, in fact all, of the most elderly people I have encountered (102 and 104 years old) have told me that they had enough of living. Centenarians are increasing and more than often feel that their lives have reached their purpose. No longer feeling well or being independent, along with the loss of family and peers, the ageing man or woman simply wishes to move on. In the 1999 movie “The Green Mile,” the main character, Paul finds himself a prisoner of his existence. As he outlives his generation and era, he is forced to survive with the memories of loss and grief. He realizes that living can be as unbearable as dying. He concludes that death is liberating.

The “live forever” that Jesus promises is spiritual. The one who eats this bread with faith in Jesus will not die a total death. Moving from the physical shell, the soul leaves the earthly existence and lives in the Resurrected Lord. The soul is eternal and as promised by Jesus, richly rewarded for those who remain close to Him. Yes, those who are Disciples of Christ and trust in His promise, by feeding on His Body and drinking His Blood, do live forever in Him.

Life is precious and the one opportunity to live in God’s grace and get close to the Lord. He alone discerns when our human life is complete and assures us that death, as we know it, is not at all the end. It is liberation into the perfect existence that God intended for us originally. The pass into eternity depends on one’s relationship with Jesus…staying close to Him in prayer, obeying His commands, living the Gospel and partaking of His bounty by eating the Bread He gives us.
A word of appreciation, to all parishioners and friends, who made a pledge and are fulfilling their part in the Diocesan Annual Appeal. From our parish, 630 gifts were made and created a pledged sum of $190,228. Anything collected over $175,000 will return to the parish. Thank you one and all.

Our June Carnival was a success because of the dedication of parishioners and friends. No easy task, we thank everyone who took any part in the carnival. To date, a total profit $136,000 was made this year. Half of this sum is part of the budget of our Parish Athletic Association who sponsors and engines the carnival to help our parish sports programs. The other half is graciously given to the parish. Thank you... you did a great job.

Lights, Camera, Action…no, we are not making a movie but creating a safer environment on our parish campus. Money collected from our parish for the Sustaining Hope Campaign is being put into new and extended lighting in the front parking lot of the parish. Energy saving, they will brighten the entrances of our buildings. From our Parish & School Building and Maintenance Funds a new security system is being installed in two phases. Cameras are being placed strategically throughout the parish to capture anything that needs to be noticed. The first phase is outside and the second phase will be inside our parish facilities. A new keyless entry system is replacing some locks; code sensitive and easily assigned, these locks can be controlled more readily. School renovations like painting, new music room and new ceilings are also being completed. We also put in a new air conditioner unit in the hall and repaired two other units. And the surface of the front parking lot is being resealed and relined for parking. The show must go on…
 

Sunday, August 12, 2018 

The Hebrews of the Bible were murmurers, especially those who traveled with Moses from Egypt to the Promised Land.  They murmured because the Pharaoh increased their work load.  It was all Moses’ fault they said angrily.  They murmured when they camped next to the Red Sea and heard that the Pharaoh’s chariots were approaching. They murmured when they had no bread, or no meat, or no water. You would have thought that they would have had faith in God who had cared for their every need, but no, instead of faith there was murmuring.

This murmuring of the Jews of the Exodus was recalled again in the murmuring of today’s Gospel. They complained about Jesus. He had fed them with loaves and fish, but now He said that He was all the bread they needed. They were convinced that He did not come down from heaven and could not give them that which their ancestors ate in the desert, manna. To accept the gift of the Bread of Life, they had to accept that Jesus was more than human. This is the same for us.  To grasp the miracle of the Eucharist, our starting point must be that Jesus is Divine.

Conventional logic convinces us that Jesus was a wonderful man, a peaceful guru whose example has attracted many followers.  To believe in the true presence of Jesus in the consecrated Host, our Communion, we have to believe that Jesus is God and God can do anything…even exist in a small Host.  In the diabolical battle against God’s people, the devil attacks that which binds them to God, the Eucharist.  Unbelievers murmur, and some Catholics are swayed by the argument that Communion is simply symbolic, a pious practice.

But faith in the divinity of Jesus allows us to go beyond rational thinking, stop murmuring and agree that if Jesus claims this…IT IS TRUE.  The devil loses a battle of apostasy whenever we enter the Mystery of the Eucharist with faith in the One who is the Bread of Life.  This is Jesus, the Second Person of the Blessed Trinity, whom we will take into ourselves when we receive Holy Communion.  We don’t murmur…We believe…We proclaim.

*Flowers at the Holy Family Shrine are in memory of Bryan J. Kosc.

The Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary is Wednesday, August 15^th and it is a Holy Day of Obligation.  Being a Holy Day, it is appropriate for the faithful to attend Mass to celebrate the Dormition or "falling asleep" of the Mother of God.  We believe that Mary fell asleep in death and both her perfect soul and pure body were taken immediately to heaven.  The Vigil Mass on Tuesday evening, August 14^th, is at 6:30 p.m. and the Masses on Wednesday are 6:30 & 8:00 a.m. and 6:30 p.m.

 

Sunday, August 5, 2018

Today's Gospel, the second of our five Sundays on the sixth chapter of John, takes place the day after Jesus had fed the five thousand people with five barley loaves and two fish. Jesus used their human desire to eat to raise their need to an infinitely higher level. He told the multitude that they seek food that perishes, but that He would give them food that never perishes; and they asked for this bread.

We have to eat to maintain our physical lives. The same is true to maintain our spiritual lives. The five basic tastes - bitter, salty, sour, sweet and savory - help ensure our survival. But we realize that we are more than the physical self and there is a longing that is much deeper. We hunger for more than this life can offer. St. Augustine said it profoundly: “You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.” 

Every one of us, even those among us who are the highest achievers, feels something lacking when cornered with life. The decline of faith and religious discipline can explain many of the sad realities of our day: increase in suicide, addiction, depression, hopelessness, apathy, etc.

God is what we need and it is precisely in Jesus, Himself that we receive the spiritual food we need to survive. Jesus gives us God. He is God. He gives us the Eucharist that is the union of ourselves with Jesus offering Himself to the Father for us. This Bread Jesus gives nourishes us to be strong in the midst of evil, to be filled with goodness for a world that needs it, to be refreshed and satisfied when our spiritual strength has been consumed. This connection with the Lord allows us to leave this physical existence and enter the Kingdom of God. The Life offered in Jesus remains even after our physical death. 

With our Eucharistic theme, this weekend, we need to be aware that the numbers of our Extraordinary Ministers of the Eucharist at Mass are not sufficient. Due to vacations and various reasons, scheduling of the ministers is difficult. We ask that ministers fulfill their ministry as scheduled and, if unable, to get a substitute. We also are appreciative of those ministers who realize there is a shortage at a given Mass and come forward to assist. We are trying different methods to fulfill our needs. A special word of thanks to all the Eucharistic Ministers who cooperate with the schedule and fulfill their ministry. If capable and interested in entering this sacred ministry for our parish, please contact the parish office and you will be interviewed. Thank you to all who serve us in this way at the altar. 

July 29, 2018

Dear Parishioners and friends:

The multiplication of loaves and fish is a repeated Gospel because the passage refers to God’s continual gift of the one food we need, the Eucharist. By the time the Gospel of John was finalized, around 90 A.D., the primitive Church had developed a deep understanding of the Eucharist.

This passage is fulfilling the prophetic action we pray in Psalm 23, the Banquet of the Lord, where we say:  “The Lord is my shepherd. There is nothing I shall want.  He leads me to green pastures and restores my strength…” In today’s Gospel Jesus sees the needs of His people and has them recline on the green grass. He restores their strength with food. 

Another emphasis in John’s Gospel is Jesus’ command to gather up the remains.  The followers of Christ were entrusted with twelve baskets of bread to be preserved for the people so those who are not present might also eat His food. This is the reason for the importance that the Catholic Church places on the preservation of the Eucharist in our tabernacles. It has biblical basis.

When we receive Communion, we are present at the Banquet of the Lord.  We enter the intimate union with God that Jesus came on earth to provide for us.  His Body and Blood keep us strong.  He gives us strength to proclaim His Kingdom.  Hopefully we realize that Holy Communion is more than a blessing or symbol.  It is the precise union of God and us.  It is the Divine nutritional strength that all serious followers of Jesus need as He restores our strength and guides us along the right path for His names sake.  Though we walk in the dark valley, we fear no evil, for His rod and staff give us courage.  Only goodness and kindness follow us all the days of our lives and we shall dwell in the House of the Lord forever.

With our Eucharistic theme, this weekend, we need to be aware that the numbers of our Extraordinary Ministers of the Eucharist as Mass are not sufficient.  Due to vacations and various reasons, scheduling of the ministers is difficult.  We ask that ministers fulfill their ministry as scheduled and, if unable, to get a substitute.  We also are appreciative of those ministers who realize there is a shortage at a given Mass and come forward to assist.  We are trying different methods to fulfill our needs.  A special word of thanks to all the Eucharistic Ministers who cooperate with the schedule and fulfill their ministry.  If capable and interested in entering this sacred ministry for our parish, please contact the parish office and you will be interviewed.  Thank you to all who serve us in this at the altar.    

Sincerely, 
Father Joe Piekarski

July 22, 2018

Shepherds are not too prominent in our area. They are common in some rural areas and definitely were prevalent in the ancient world. These men and women are needed to tend sheep; leading the herd to safe areas to graze and rest. Jesus compared Himself to A Good Shepherd, although we have no recording of Him partaking of this career. And the title was given to those who lead people in the world, especially within the Church with those who “pastor” God’s people. The Pope, bishops and local pastors are leaders of the faith and have a responsibility to “shepherd” Christ’s flock safe and well.

Like all things, there are good shepherds and bad shepherds. Our first readings, this Sunday, scold those shepherds who mislead and scatter God’s flock. In the days of the prophet Jeremiah, the leaders of ancient Israel were putting on a pious front but leading their people astray with pagan rituals and immorality. Jeremiah’s warning against their hypocrisy came to pass with the destruction of the people by the Babylonian Empire. Yet, the prophet relied on the remnant of this flock to be gathered back to the Lord and return back to their pasture.

The age of integrity began with Jesus. He is the perfect “Good Shepherd” that does not lead us astray. WE, the Church, are members of this age of integrity. As Christians, we are responsible to live genuine, Gospel lives and continue the Lord’s mission with justice and integrity. We must be careful not to be misled by alluring outside voices or wayward promptings. Christ’s voice is authentic and His leadership always keeps us on the right path to His Kingdom. Let us support each other in leading our communities, families and ourselves in the path of the Lord.


July 26 is the feast of Saints Ann & Joachim, the parents of the Blessed Mother and grandparents of Jesus. Many grandparents, especially these days, are influential and even taking on the responsibilities of raising their grandchildren in the faith. We salute their noble efforts and commend them under their patronage.

...Amatchi, Aitatchi; Oma, Opa; Bomma, Bompa; Grand-maman, Grand-papa, Yaya, Papou; Savta, Saba; Dida, Dadu; Thakur-ma, Thakur- da; Maimeo, Daideo; Nonna, Nonno; Senele, Senelis; Babcia, Dzia Dzia; Basia, Dedushka; Tita, Tito; Lola, Lolo; Daadi, Daadaa; Mmakhulu, Mmakhulu; Ba, Ong; Mom Mom, Pop Pop; Gammi; Grams, Gramps; MeMa, MePa...

Sincerely, 
Father Joe Piekarski

July 15, 2018

Our first reading is about the prophet, Amos. He was not like most prophets. He did not wear strange clothes; he was not a prophet throughout his life and did not even do strange prophetic actions. He was an average guy, a shepherd. One day, he received the message from God that he was to drop everything and tell the people living north of him that they were facing destruction unless they changed their lives. He felt he had no choice but to comply. Amos was not concerned whether or not the people would accept him or wanted to hear the divine message.

We see the same in the Gospel. Jesus sends His disciples out, two by two, to proclaim the coming of the Kingdom of God. These disciples were everyday people. Jesus sends each one out with a companion to assure the support of like-mindedness in a potentially hostile world. Jesus tells them to carry little luggage and to just proclaim the word and then move on. If people accept the word great, if they don't, leave quickly, but bring the word of God to the next village.

All of this goes very must against the standard procedures of our information age. Standard procedure of our time is to get a test sampling of what people believe or want to believe and then deal with that as a truth. For us Catholics, we must be extra cautious. For example, we are told that the majority of us do not believe in the true presence of the Lord in the Eucharist and that the majority of us question the morality teachings of the Church. It is disturbing to think that Catholics should determine their faith and morals by what the majority of people is believing or doing. The truth is not dependent on the people to whom it is addressed. The truth is dependent on the fidelity of the proclaimer to the message received by God.

The readings today tell us that we do not have the right to walk away from our responsibilities to the Truth. We have to stand for the truth of the Lord, whether it is popular or not, whether it is convenient or not. We have all received the mandate of Jesus to go out and proclaim His Word. Today we pray for the courage to proclaim the truth at work, in our neighborhoods and in our families.

Today… Join in the worldwide mission of Jesus! Join the Propagation of Faith! As disciples of Jesus, we are called to draw others to Christ. More than 2,000 years after the birth of Jesus, some two-thirds of our human family do not yet know Him in faith. Through the Propagation of Faith, we can reach those at work at “the ends of the earth” as we help to support the evangelizing work in more than 1,150 mission dioceses worldwide. We are needed to offer prayer and regular financial help. Please join.

July 8, 2018

This week's scriptures illuminate the identity and mission of a prophet- a calling that belongs to all the baptized by virtue of our Baptism. God appoints the prophets to a specific mission. This mission is to speak God's word of truth. 

God's word of truth is not a private or personal opinion, but the Word of God communicated through human words. The prophet speaks God's word of truth to those within and those outside the Church. Prophets do not seek to proclaim a message that is easy to be accepted, but seek to speak God's word of truth, no matter how hard it might be to hear and accept. Christ is the paradigmatic example of the identity and mission of the prophet.

The Mass Intention Book for 2019 is open. Please visit the Parish Office for the availability and scheduling of intentions for Masses in the Parish for the approaching year. Because of the demand for Mass intentions, please be considerate of others who also want to make their intentions. Also, all “living” intentions will be sent to retired priests to be fulfilled in a timely period.

 

July 1, 2018

July is a wonderful time to vacate, to get away for a while. Even Our Lord needed a break from the crowds to relax, reflect and pray. Our Gospel, today, begins at the Sea of Galilee after Jesus came ashore. He was returning from a boat ride with His disciples in which He napped but was awakened by the others to calm a squall.

Now He is being summoned to heal the daughter of Jairus. Going to his home, Jesus disregards the news that the little girl has just died. Jesus responds: “Fear is useless.  What is needed is trust.”  Jesus takes the twelve year old girl by the hand and commands her to get up.  Immediately she arose and began to walk.  
This is one of the three miracles in the Gospels that Jesus performed in raising the dead. Jairus’ daughter was a mere child. Jesus also raised the widow's son, a young adult, as he was being carried to his grave in Nain (Lk 7:11-17) and Jesus also raised His older friend Lazarus (Jn 11:1-44) who had been dead and buried for four days. It appears to us that the evangelists are telling us that Jesus is not limited in raising the dead. Be they tender in age or older, recently deceased or almost forgotten, Jesus can and does raise them all.

In these days when we probably have a chance to reflect, it is comforting to acknowledge the Divine Power of Jesus, over turbulent storms, illness, evil and even over death. The Lord disrupted His need to vacate His routine in order to satisfy our very human needs. We can relax in His care and recall His desire to give everyone of us ... LIFE. Simply, trust in Him.

Mass on the Fourth of July is at 9 a.m. All are invited to celebrate our Nation’s commemoration of independence and establishment as a new nation. It is a wonderful time to remember our freedoms and the task we have, as a Nation, to preserve those certain unalienable rights that we are endowed with by Our Creator. Please keep praying for our Nation that we may be guided in His way.

2019 Mass Intention Book is open. Please contact the Parish Office for the availability and scheduling of intentions for Masses in the Parish for the approaching year. Because of the demand for Mass intentions (from January 1, 2018 to now, our parish has celebrated 71 funerals), please be considerate of others who also want to make their intentions. Also, all “living” intentions will be sent to retired priests to be fulfilled in a timely period.

Sincerely,
Father Joe Piekarski

The Nativity of St. John the Baptist
June 24, 2018

Today we celebrate the birth of Saint John the Baptist. Falling on a Sunday, this year, this solemnity supersedes what normally comes in succession, the Twelfth Sunday of Ordinary Time. St. John’s entry into the world was special because he was called to a special mission and an integral part of salvation history. He prepared the way for the Lord. 

Today’s feast recalls that from the first moment of his life, in his mother’s womb, John had the supreme task as a prophet to point to Jesus as the Savior of the world. He was divinely destined to be named John. He prepared the world for the Lord’s arrival by preaching conversion and signing his followers with the waters of baptism. Popular as John the Baptist was and even looked upon by many as “the” savior, John corrected this misconception and pointed to Jesus saying: "It is He who comes after me, the thong of whose sandal I am not worthy to untie." (Jn1:27). John’s mission was fulfilled when he proclaimed in his preaching that Jesus was the Lamb of God. 

We are all part of God’s plan. Like John the Baptist we have been named by God. This took place at our baptism. We have been given the mission to lead the world to God, in ways general to our state of life and specific to our own talents. Like John, we have a responsibility to use our lives to point to the Savior. 

A grateful note is extended to everyone who could and did support the 2018 Annual Catholic Appeal. St. John the Beloved Parish met our goal of $175,000 in pledges and even exceeded this goal by a total of $186,353 in pledges. To date, $101,435 has been collected by the Diocese. Thank you to the 609 gifts that help us achieve our goal. Please continue fulfilling these pledges. Whatever is collected after the initial $175,000 target that goes to the Diocese of Wilmington, will return to our parish. This overage is going toward the security system of our parish campus. As discussed because of increasing global violence in public areas, our parish is seriously focusing on the security of our parish with a better-sophisticated locking system in certain doors and cameras in some areas. Thank you for your cooperation and dedication. God reward your generosity.

June 17, 2018

The agricultural theme of this week’s Gospel coincides with my thoughts of my father on this Father’s Day weekend.  My father enjoyed planting a garden of tomatoes, eggplant, cucumbers, peppers, etc.  From him, I learned the importance of rotating crops, fertilizing the ground, compost and hydration.  He must have done something right because the tomatoes tasted better then.  In whatever he planned to do or anticipated, my dad’s favorite saying was “God willing.”  

The people who heard Jesus tell the parable of the farmer’s life also shared the wonder of the soil.  The farmer works hard during the day, but he can’t make the seed grow into a plant.  God causes the growth.  Jesus’ point is that like the plants the Kingdom of God is in God’s hands.  The workers in the Lord’s fields must do their best to create the proper environment, but God causes the growth. 

The Church lives on despite the initial persecution from the Romans, despite the internal dogmatic fights and debates of the earlier centuries, despite the Dark Ages and the conquest of the barbarians, despite the corruption from within and outside in the Middle Ages and the Renaissance, despite the Christian fratricide of the Reformation and the onslaught of rationalists in the last two centuries, despite the sex abuse scandal and the attacks on Christians by ISIS, and despite two thousand years of martyrdom aimed at destroying the faith, the Church still lives on, and grows.  God gives the growth.  He does wonders with our feeble efforts.  He turns that which is insignificant into that which is substantial…because God is willing. 

As we celebrate Father’s Day, we honor those men who parent us by passing on life in loving fulfillment of duty.  We honor those men who selflessly support and guide us, regardless of their own aspirations, hopes, and hardships.  Knowing that these men protect us, their children, is a great source of security.  And to a higher level, are those fathers who inspire us in faith.  Saint Joseph, guardian of Jesus, models the attributes of a good father. May St. Joseph hear the prayers of our fathers and those who imitate them in our lives.  And for those men who left this world, may they have the reward of the just and honorable servants of God.   
Fathers Piekarski, Coffiey & Martin; Deacons Wuebbels & Fontana; and our staff.